My bf is much older than I am and he is constantly worried about this. What can I do to reasure him? He tries to think of other thoughts while we make love to keep himself from ejaculating prematurely.
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So what if he does ejaculate too early… wait around for a bit, he can please you manually, and then get it up again, and the second time around it won’t be uncontrollable (typically)… so if you have a small frame of time, you may want to start off by just getting him off real quick the first time around, and then perhaps work on it after that.
Premature ejaculating is take place only because of immidates sex ,to avoid this go for longer carrising and play with u r partners organs when u reach the hight after long carrising go for intercourse.
I think that all he is trying to do is make sure you are pleased before he ejaculates and pleases his self. Or some men that are older and with a young women think that they have to prove something to the younger women by being able to last longer than a young man. But anyways hope I helped you.
They worry about it because as they get older it tends to happen in alot of men. Mostly the only thing you can do is to prolong foreplay, the longer you wait to getting to actual intercourse the better because that will be over soon. good luck!!
You didn’t mention your age and how much older your bf is – it would be helpful to know. I am an older man and the last thing I worry about is premature ejaculation…..impotence maybe, but not PE. There are lots of techniques for treating PE – check them out on the web. Also check any info on Tantric Sex. Some doctors are treating PE with selective serotonin uptake inhibitor drugs – commonly used as antidepressants – drugs like Paxil, Lexapro and several others. These drugs DO work, but there side effects such as decrease or loss of libido, which kinda depeats the purpose of taking the drug for PE. Good Luck
BTW I tried taking Lexapro for a short time to treat depression…the first time I had sex after starting the drug I went 45 minutes and never did have an orgasm – my wife loved it. After that I had NO (zero, zip nada, non) sex drive until 2 weeks after I stop taking Lexapro.