I have a boyfriend that i have been going out for a over a year that i love yet has problems keeping it togather even before we get all our clothes off and i would like genune answers.
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Hi..i have the same problem..i am 26…how old is he and how experienced is he?? has he had this problem from the begining?
Premature ejaculation is caused by over excitement. He should try to think of other things and take it slow and easy.
If this is the beginning of his sexual experience it would not be too unusual that he be overexcited. Experience may resolve this problem. Be patient and things should work out.
Talk about this and follow this solution together. He can perform again after he has ejaculated if you play with him and he with you. The biggest sex organ is the brain. Get him turned on again. Porn stars masturbate before the cameras roll, then get going for the punters. It’s a good way of making it last an awful lot longer!
If you want to solve the problem, here’s how it works…
It’s all about being relaxed. Play with his penis, even if he ejaculates, carry on playing. Let him know you are not bothered by his ejaculation and you take it as a compliment. get him erect, squeeze the base of the penis until it goes floppy. Repeat the process several times until he gets used to you playing with him. Don’t have penetrative sex for a couple of weeks. Masturbate him, masturbate yourself and let him masturbate himself and you. Get him to relax with you both naked. When he is masturbating, stop him and make him go floppy as described above. Get him to get to know the feeling at base of his penis where the muscles control ejaculation. He needs to relearn how to control himself and the way to do that is through play. ‘the Joy of Sex’ by Alex Comfort describes these processes in full. Good luck. Surprisingly most men go through at least one period in their lives where they ‘forget’ how to hold it back. RELAX, get him relaxed, make it fun. Have a glass or two of wine. Explore each others bodies without having sex.
There are things such as benzocaine(get one specifically made for intercourse desensitization) that will help with the actual act. Other than that, the only thing to do is practice mentally distracting himself or practice starting and stopping on his own(takes a lot of time and effort) until he can hold back if he feels it coming
Note: Do not double up on condoms ever. The chance that they will break is greatly increased, and i doubt you want to get pregnant
He should look at porn earlier in the day masturbate maybe even a few times prior to the two of you having sex. He needs to build up a tolerance. Hope it works out.
there should be several medications out there? iam not sure of names. Try having him masterbate before hand to see if it takes some time for him to ejaculate again sparing you some time? hope i helped somehow
Double up on condoms while having sex so he feels less.
Otherwise, I’m not sure there is much you can do to help that.
Ok
masterbating b4 sex is wat alot of guys do
And u could double on condoms but i doubt he will want that
And there is a kind of condom that makes u last longer i dont know what its called tho
Tell him to beat it before you guys have sex. It will make him last way longer.
Tell him to spank it before you go at it, the 2nd time is always harder
hmmmm…maybe he gets really nervous. next time you should be in a warm atmosphere. take it slowly.
i think ur boyfriend is in teeny age.
try another one.
tell him to think of his grandma naked and curl his toes really hard
i hve the same problem