I am young and fit in my mid-twenties.I have been with my partner for a year and a half and we have had a very good sexual relationship up until about a month and half ago. At the start of the relationship I was a bit nervous but after a week we were having great sex and were able to come together almost every time.
Then during intercourse last month or so she was on top and it was getting a it uncomfortable and I must have lost my erection a bit and when she got off she was upset and I lost my erection completly. we tried again but she was still upset and I could not maintain my erection. Ever since then I have been suffering from severe erectile dysfunction. The times we tried after the first time my girlfriend got very upset which I don’t think helped and she is more understanding now. I cannot maintain a strong erection whatsoever. my erections seem less hard and smaller. I can get an erection if she orally stimulates me but once I reach for the condoms or put one on mr flopppy comes back instantly.
The 2 times I have been able to penetrate her, I have suffered from severe premature ejaculation. the 1st time I came within a minute, and she was raging. the 2nd time I had to pull out after 30 seconds to stop myself coming and when I did I lost my erection instantly, the erection was not like my normal erections before this started happening.
my girlfriend got me to go to the doctor a few weeks ago, he explained I was fit and healthy from my records (he did no tests) and said it was probably anxiety or a viscious circle. he gave me 4 viagra or similar pills. I am going to try one next time.
I feel awful and a bit depressed and feel like my girlfriend has just about had enough.
Could I have a physical problem or is it all in my head. How I am going to get back to normal with my girlfriend and back to loving life?
thanks for your help!

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