I have severe case of premature ejaculation. I only last like 10 seconds when i go through intercourse. Is there anyway to help this?
I am 16 years old.
I started masturbating at the age of 12 and quite frequently (I have stopped like a year ago as frequently but it i too late. I notice the time it takes me to go was getting shorter and shorter and now it is only a few seconds.
Please help and thanks in advance.
well start masturbating again but this time when you are about to ejaculate stop and completley let go of your penis wait for the feeling of ejaculation to go away and then start again, do this until the point where you stroke it a few times you will ejaculate. Practice this daily and you will see improvments on your time. Also take your mind off the sex, focus on other parts of your body or plan what you are going to do the next day, i find that helps me go for an extra 20 min lol
Well the whole stop thing takes time. Dont over think the sex because that will make you *** faster. Just try to keep your mind off of it. Another thing i find that helps is let her get on top of you and let her do all the work. I last aa lot longer that way
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Just don’t get so excited. Thinking about how good it will feel to c*m or enter her can get you overly excited and you shoot too soon. Like some people already said jerk it till you almost c*m then stop. Just keep doing this starting and stopping with out finishing and don’t have sex until you build up some stamina. You can also try a **** ring. Just be sure to get one with a quick release so if it gets too intense you can get it off quickly but it should slow you down also. Don’t worry about having sex with the girlfriend so soon in life. Just enjoy life and let things happen more naturally and you will see some improvement in your ****ing experiences. Try having your girl friend take you into her mouth at the point of orgasm with her mouth full of ice cold Coke. It will drive you intensely insane and delay your orgasm. It’s wonderful !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sometimes it’s all in your head. When you j/o start slowly and stop as soon as you feel it coming. Relax and start over again. Lock yourself in your room as the fear of being caught is what makes a lot of guys do it quickly. Train yourself to stop before you reach the point of no return. You can used lube and a desensitising gel to help you. And when you’re with your gf, explain to her the problem, it will make you stress less and she’ll understand to go slow. Concentrate more on foreplay – alternate between foreplay and sex whenever you think you’re going to come.
Well, I used to blow my load just brushing up to a girl….. cure, start dating very ugly women…I found facial hair, and cellulite to be very effective!
to dude,
so u c.um 10 secs first time………..
………..what about next time, or is that it?!?
marcus
it could be several factors…. stress, including too much excitement, smoking or drinking habits…. better see a gynecologist or a therapist… at times, it’s how you discipline yourself like holding on still…
masturbation is one way to sort of desensitize the penis a little. If you masturbate once a week, you will find you reach orgasm faster thanif you do it daily. alsoif you can masturbate when you have time and privacy then you can learn to relax and enjoy the sensations instead of having to hurry. you can also practice the start and stop techniques through masturbation. Oh, and if your gf is interested maybe she can help too.
dude masturbating when u were 12… Idk what to say. Go to a mens health clinic cause probaly wont get an accurate answer on here.
it is all in your mind. you are getting too excited. I think it may be the person you are with. Try getting to know the person as a friend first, so you are comfortable with them, and in time you can enjoy the time you have together. There is nothing wrong with you.
The real question here should be why is a 16 year old involved in intercourse. Enjoy your childhood and wait for the sex.