My husband is 24 and struggles with premature ejaculation. It is always over too soon for me. When can I expect him to start slowing down? At what age do they get control of it?
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Sounds like to me you need help your self. Have you ever tried sex anonymous. I think there’s medication for that. sexual addiction
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Its less an age thing, and more experience. There are some short term tricks, but you’re married and young, go long term.
Find the book online ‘the multi orgasmic male’ or some other text with exercises on male multiple orgasm. They are the same exercises to be used to learn ejaculatory control. The first few he has to work on on his own, the later exercises are a team exercise. Have him work on it every night, within a couple months he should have reasonable control _most_ of the time.
I wouldn’t aim for him to be under control 100% of the time. You want some passion too! Its better if he occasionally fires early but its always passionate then for him to be 100% under control.
Thought he should have control of it by now-but I guess there is no technical age-maybe you need to slow down a bit and try not to excite him too quickly and it will last longer? I know when I want it to last longer I back off of what I’m doing to him.
First one is the easy one so Bj or Hj
then lots of kissy kissy lick lick or what ever for 10 to 20 mins (try not to talk about anything serious)
Second one will take a bit longer so vaginally if you like.
lots more lovin, kissin, and just about what ever for another 10 mins or so
By the third one he’s gonna need serious sensation to make it go you might try anal.
damn
i dont know… never had this prob
do u think it will go better with time?
i dont think….
u can do this
when u do it (ur husb has to cooperate)
do it as now.. so he will *** soon… then do it again
someone told me that if u do like this the second time it will have much more duration
if it doesnt works….
call me !!!!
(dont take me wrong.. i cannot resist…hope i don’t offend you)
TK
CIAO
PS (sorry about my english)
Lots of men with PE never slow down. It’s a condition. Teenage boys might have it for a few times but that’s only because sex is new to them. Your husband needs to see his doctor. Meds can help.
If he can not control it tell him to jack off (excuse my language) a little before you have sex that should help with it. If not maybe he needed to go to the doctor.
My 1st husband had that problem. There are books and DVDs that can offer some help. Do it now. The sooner he starts working on it, the sooner you’ll reap the benefits. Good luck to both of you!
How long can he go? Some women expect miracles from their men. Try adding a vibrator to the action, or manual stimulation. It may take more than straight intercourse to get you off.
They never control it if they don’t know there’s a problem. You should be talking to him about this.
i would make sure that your oven is warmed way up before he gets involved.
tell him he needs to control himself
I agree with shona. He needs to do it couple of times before.
never.. he needs to see a doctor to see if they can treat it.