How Can I Control My Orgasm, Premature Ejaculation?

Written by MWooten on October 2nd, 2009

Premature ejaculation is is when a man ejaculates (comes) within two minutes of penetration. It is more common among younger men up to the age of 35. It tends to happen because a man is very aroused.

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  1. Kewl says:

    There’s no strict timing for ejaculation Whenever a man reaches orgasm before he wants to, experts agree, it’s Premature Ejaculation. Some studies have found that, For a normal couple the average time sex lasted was 7.8 minutes and For a man with PE the average time before ejaculation was 1.8 minutes, If you and your partner are happy with your two three minutes, you don’t have to consider yourself as a premature ejaculator.http://www.sexualweakness.com/premature-…

  2. Dr. Knowitall says:

    Premature ejaculation primarily has a physiological basis. Biologically, men have an orgasm approximately 2-3 minutes after penetrating the vagina. Women, on the other hand, typically take more time to reach the climax. Since in most cases, the partners may not climax together, they are not satisfied and the ejaculation is termed premature.
    However, premature ejaculation may be caused by a variety of psychological and social reasons. It is seen that it occurs frequently when the man is under mental stress or anxiety. Anxiety may be due to the fear of non-performance, the fear of being discovered (as during premarital or extramarital sex in our society) or anxiety related to contraction of sexually transmitted diseases or an unwanted pregnancy.
    The following techniques may be beneficial in delaying ejaculation:
    1. The “stop and start” method – in this method, the man learns to recognise the stage after which he cannot control ejaculation. The treatment method trains the person to remove the stimulus just before that stage is reached so that the urge to ejaculate is controlled. For example, when during masturbation, the man reaches a point just before ejaculating, he stops the stimulus until he starts losing the erection. Once the stage is past, he can resume the activity. This process is repeated again and again until the individual is able to delay ejaculation till the time he wishes. This method called the ‘Masters and Johnson method’, is most effective when the help of the partner is sought during actual intercourse.
    2. The squeeze technique – in this method, the partner gently squeezes the tip or base of the penis just before the point of ejaculation thereby “cancelling” the orgasm. This process can be continued until the couple decides mutually to reach the climax.
    3. Desensitising creams and gels are available in the market that reduce the sensitivity of the penis and help men reach climax later. Some men also feel that condoms reduce the sensations and, in addition to providing safer sex, help them last longer.
    4. The couple can also experiment with sexual positions as some positions offer more control than others and may help to delay ejaculation.
    The optimal medical treatment for PE has not been established and the U.S. FDA has not approved any drug for its treatment but many studies have shown that a group of drugs called selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) and drugs with SSRI-like side effects are safe and effective to treat this condition. Dapoxetine is a novel, fast-acting serotonin reuptake inhibitor which under FDA review for the treatment of premature ejaculation. Recent phase 3 clinical trials in patients with premature ejaculation have shown it to be effective in improving the time to ejaculation without any major adverse events, except nausea.

  3. Vincent says:

    Your premature ejaculation was most likely caused by excess masturbation. The only way to heal is to stop losing any more semen.
    Here is your best solution: Cover your penis with scotch tape from base to tip while it is flaccid. Don’t wrap it so tight that it cuts off circulation. Leave the tip open so you can still urinate.This will inhibit erections and make it impossible to masturbate.
    The chemical reactions that take place during orgasm and ejaculation reduce testosterone and create another chemical called dihydrotestosterone(DHT) that causes hair loss. Testosterone is needed to maintain muscle mass, bone mass, mental energy, and physical energy. The vitamins and nutrients lost with the expelled semen such as zinc further deteriorate your bones, muscles, flesh, brain, and even your eyes.
    Every time you watch porn or think of sexual images powerful chemicals are released in your brain bringing an intense feeling of pleasure. These same chemicals are released in drug addicts brains when they get their fix of crack, heroine, morphine, or whatever drug they are addicted to.
    I know of many more methods. PM me for more info

  4. RonnyJ says:

    Controlling my ejaculation seemed impossible because ever since I began having sex I havent been able to last for than 30 seconds with a girl. So I know exactly what you are talking about.
    Now I can have sex for 10 minutes and sometimes longer because I have learned to control my ejaculatory reflex which allows me to have some control over my ejaculation.
    This website helped me learn how to last longer in bed so im positive it can help you too because noone had worse premature ejaculation problems than me lol
    http://curepremature-ejaculation.net

  5. SimpleGu says:

    ohh you need to go slow then eventually speed up a bit.. a few “half digs” than go deep once every while.. :) you really need to control the desire to shoot and prolong the period..
    i would prefer using “natural” solution to cure rather than taking pills :)
    i have learnt quite a few techniques myself from one book.. hehe..
    remember there’s a saying “it isn’t the size of that matters, it’s how long and how many times you can make it stand” :)
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  6. Enigma says:

    Take your mind off the sex think of the girl, anything. It is not being unfaithful to the moment to do this. It will help you control yourself. What is is doing is making it longer time for the girl and both of you will enjoy it more. Do this all through the lovemaking and try different things to make the lovemaking more than just jumping on and thank you mam.
    Or do it once quick then when you have rested have another session.

  7. Jack M says:

    Take it slow and try not to focus so much on getting it done.
    When you start to feel you are getting close then slow down or pull out and kiss more or go down on her. Continue to please her with your mouth and fingers then go back in.
    Try different positions. Sometimes the woman on top is best …..
    But play safe

  8. Liquid_a says:

    Hey just try to focus on something else while its happening or try something else. (ie when your humping stop for a few seconds and try kissing her or touching her in the right places.) Or like said above Brick f@cking wall

  9. Krish K says:

    The more sex you have the better this usually gets. Do you masturbate? Masturbating more often and just before getting intimate with a woman can help too. Would that work for you?

  10. Richard Price says:

    Get a stick or somethign un-comfortable…selotape it to your pereneium during sex…it’ll be so unconfortable that you’ll frget about your penis and then you wont orgasm! Simple! (Schimplzzz)
    You’re welcome and enjoy your sex in the future…

  11. anon79 says:

    Premature ejaculation happens because you have weak “PC” muscle. Learn how to strengthen your PC muscle with Kegel exercise.

  12. amour. says:

    Medication, less foreplay, asking your girl to masturbate before penetrating, watching less pornography, and focusing more on nonsexual qualities of your girl, to lessen the excitement.

  13. christina t says:

    lessen the excitment by not being to aroused and excited

  14. Peter T says:

    Get yourself a really ugly girlfriend…….

  15. lived alot says:

    yes Your right it happens a lot..put on a condom its help stop the feelings…

  16. Cool Person. says:

    WELL DONE

  17. crafty cow says:

    think of a brick wall when your at it then you will last longer

  18. Miss X says:

    jerk off more b4 sex

  19. dave says:

    i didn’t understand i want to wait long time with my wife for long time on bed give me comment,,,,,,

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