this is a little personal , but i need help and dont know who else to ask,
well my boyriend and i have been having sex for the past 6 months, and everything was going fine and all. BUT the other day, he ‘came’ after about 30 seconds, literally. and it was very odd because he said he tried to hold it in but he couldnt.
do you think he may have premature ejaculation problems, he wont stop thinking about it now, and hes really worried it will happen again, hes all depressed and sad, and thinks he wont make me happy anymore, when of course he always will.
but yeah , does anyone know how to stop this, or if he actually does have a problem?
thanks
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Everyone has this problem every now and again. Its nothing serious.
If, however, it does happened repeatedly it wouldnt hurt to see your local doctor. Go with him to show your support.
Unfortunately with problems regarding sex, the more stress you put on the ‘issue’ the more it actually becomes and issue. So try and emphasis that its not a big deal and more of a compliment.
I mean, really when you look at it you were so hot that he couldnt stop blowing his load.
As stated above, wearing more condoms is a good idea or if you are disappointed with your amount of pleasure perhaps you should take control and be on top.
He may have an erectile dysfunction however, has it happened often? If this is one of the only times then it’s normal, sometimes guys just can’t hold it in.. of course it’s rare especially if it’s 30 seconds. If it happened often then you should get him to check it out. Otherwise you have nothing to worry about, he just feels depressed cuz sex ties in a lot with the guy’s ego. Let him know that it’s ok and you’ll love him, and sex with him a lot. Hope things go well.
if its only happened once, could be just a fluke.
maybe he was just overly excited this time? (did you go a while before having sex?)
tell him to try to relax and not think about it.
chances are if he’s been fine (lasting longer) throughout your normal sex life, it was just a one time thing and shouldn’t happen often, if ever again.
That happened once in 6 months. i dont think there is any problem. it hapens sometimes, may be coz he was very umm excited. well chill. If the problem persists again try talkin to a Doc
Give him a blumpkin! Blumpkins are always the answer!
wear multiple condoms to decrease the sensitivity.
it happens sometimes to guys, maybe that was just a bad day for him, or maybe you gave him too much fun, lol
Theres no ‘problem’ Its very normal.
what you could do is maybe go to a doctor to see if he really has a problem
thats normal to happen once in a while…theres always round 2