Hi friends,
I have a friend, very healthy, good looking, non drinker non smoker and an amazing guy..
Recently , his relationship has gone for a toss as he is suffering from ‘premature ejaculation‘ and this has taken a toll on him.
He is really in trouble, can anybody tell how to help him .?
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If he will take care of business before he gets down to business, it might lend some staying power. A condom might also dull the sensation a bit & allow him to last longer.
Tell your “friend” its ok to post his own questions. LOL
Lack of sex = no stamina = premature ejaculation. Not around it enough to control the pleasure sensors.
Could be stress, medicines being taken, even some vitamins can cause problems down in man land.
I suggest reading up on it. If you want a great book try this, http://prematureejaculation.ixanda.com
he should do nothing at all. He is normal – when you come – you come – It’s over and done with. he must not blame himself.
Jerking off before intercourse sometimes helps delay the next orgasm. Opiates can slow it down a lot (codeine, Demerol, etc.etc.) Valium & other tranquilizers can help a bit , too.
Your friend sounds perfectly normal to me – tell him stop feeling bad. His body is functioning like God designed it to – pure & simple.
Three suggestions.
1-have his prostate looked at-checked out.
2-there is a exercise he can to, woman also can to this. It’s called the “Kegel exercise”..where you squeeze and hold your muscles around the meatus (pee-hole) and hold for five seconds and release. Repeat 10x. It strengthens the muscles all down there and may help in cases such as this.
3-he could be just going through “mental” changes and needs time to. A break up/divorce, etc in allot to go through for anyone. That would effect the psychic status. In time, he may need to see a shrink?
Hope this helps..
Sabrina, RN,BSN (Nurse)
How can an ejaculation be premature? I mean, isn’t that the goal?!?
yeah, don’t hold your breath
They make condoms with a desensitizing gel in them, Trojan or Durex, called “Extended Pleasure”, I think. But they’re almost too much, you sometimes can’t get off at all.
this is the truth ALL MEN ARE PREMATURE EJACULATORS and I’m a guy so tell your friend that every body’s like that it should help