It’s a sex question. It seems as if I can have an orgasm unless I give it myself. When my boyfriend and I have sex, he uses the pull out method and i honestly think that i have never had an orgasm during sex. I think that too with 3rd base. The only time my boyfriend can get me off is if he fingers me. I’m afraid that when we decide to have children, i won’t have an orgasm then. Honestly, I think that my boyfriend cums 2 quick because after he pulls out twice, he cums into the condom. It’s starting to make me a little ill.
Is there anything I can do to help myself and is there anything i can do to stop his premature ejaculation?
Sorry for all the TMI!!!
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It doesn’t sound like sex is lasting long enough for you to find a rhythm so that you could have an orgasm.
Most women do not have one through sexual intercourse alone, it requires direct manual or oral stimulation to the clitoris. It’s so unfortunate that many men do not want to take the time to learn how to please a woman.
For his problem (though he will have to want to work on it):
In general, practice and relaxation will help you deal with the problem. Some men try to distract themselves by thinking non-sexual thoughts (such as naming baseball players and records) to avoid becoming excited too fast.
Some helpful techniques include the following:
The “stop and start” method:
This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. The stimulation is then removed for about thirty seconds and then may be resumed. The sequence is repeated until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.
The “squeeze” method:
This technique involves sexual stimulation until the man recognizes that he is about to ejaculate. At that point, the man or his partner gently squeezes the end of the penis (where the glans meets the shaft) for several seconds, withholding further sexual stimulation for about 30 seconds, and then resuming stimulation. The sequence may be repeated by the person or couple until ejaculation is desired, the final time allowing the stimulation to continue until ejaculation occurs.